Being Single

Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be. It gives you space to grow. Sometimes it is harder to grow when you are too close to someone or to somebody.

Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches and become strong as they mature.

Single means learning to live by yourself. However, that is no more difficult than learning to live with somebody else. This means freedom. You are free to spend a week's vacation on the beach, take classes, work late on an interesting project, spend the day on bed or on a couch with a good book or comics.

Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because you want to be with him/her.

Single means that sometimes you will wonder why you will bite your lip and feel wistful and wonder if marriage is better. Ironically, yet quite happily, single is feeling good about being in control of your life. It is liking and respecting who you are and why you are.

It is the state of realizing that being married is not necessarily better, it is merely different.

Single means that there could be something wonderful around the corner and you can take advantage of it.

This only means you are free to do whatever you want, whenever you want and however you want things to be. Most especially, you are free to love again.



There are times when we are afraid of telling the person whom we love or like, what we feel deep inside because we might just lose them. It's a big risk..but isn't everything is...

The way I see, it is why we keep something inside and then end up regretting it in the near future.

Whatever you decide on what to do with your feelings...whether to tell it to that person or not, you have to be ready with the consequences that will come after it...accept it!

Whatever decisions you have made in your life, it is all part of growing experience, part of your life. In all decisions that you have to make, you must always remember that it will affect your future. So think hard before deciding on certain things.

Reflect and pray...and He will show you the way